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Commandment 8
What to do: ENCOURAGE YOUR CHILD IN THE HABIT OF CHECKING ON HIS
OWN COMMUNICATION SKILLS.
Why: The aim of all education is to get our children gradually to
take on more responsibility for themselves until they become
independent.
How: Expect him to
proof-read all his assignments for language
errors. We tell him at school that everything which is to be read by
someone else should be proof-read, so that would include his letters,
too. A
dictionary
(2) should be at his elbow during proof-reading.
A quiet place of his own to work in and rather regular hours for
study help set up good habits of work and self-examination.
A little kidding can often help eliminate a pet expression not
quite acceptable in ordinary speech. Help him develop a memory aid he
can use himself.
Charts that show growth in spelling strength, improvement of
penmanship can be incentives.
Discourage him from
letting you decide whether something is good
enough. When he asks “Is this all right?”, turn the question back to
him by asking “Are you satisfied with it?..Is it the best you
can do?”
If
he wants to compete with somebody, let him do the picking.
Don’t
compare him with any other one in the
family or his class. Show him you
expect him to work up to his capacity, not that of anyone else.
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