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Commandment 7
What to do: BE THE BEST MODEL YOU CAN—IN MANNERS, INTERESTS, AND
GOOD USE OF LANGUAGE.
Why: Nothing is more clear than that children are natural mimics.
They will do as you do, no matter what you tell them. They will absorb
your attitudes towards people and experience. Setting the example is
item number one in the parent’s contract.
How: Even though you may be past the age for
twisting, keep out of
that rut.
Keep your own interests up
(2)
(3) so that your children would rather
talk with you than any other adult they know.
Watch your own language—not self consciously –to see whether you
are
saying what you mean, keeping a
growing vocabulary, avoiding the
over use of a few
pet phrases.
(2)
Read, write, converse and be seen doing specific things
which require communication skills.
Be
positive. Look for the good signs. Praise your children when they
deserve it. If you see
something developing in a child which worries
you, work on the cause rather than complain to the child about it. If
it gets too big for you, get some help.
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